I had liked the thought of being part of the swinging lifestyle for a while now, but I never had the courage to act on it. The thought of going to swingers clubs and private swinger parties just didn't seem like the best way to get myself into those social circles. I'm also not the most extroverted person, so I'm sure I'd look less the comfortable with the situation. What I really was looking for was Essex chat rooms for swingers. That way, I could start to get to know people in outside London who were active swingers that were willing to help out a newbie on the scene.
Sure, there are other ways to get in touch with swingers in Essex – newspaper personal ads, other online swinging forums, but I never trusted how safe they were. I might have been able to connect with other swingers on regular dating web sites, but they really aren't suited for guys who are looking for no strings attached one night stands with married couples. Heading into London and meeting up with established swingers in clubs seemed a bit too daunting for me.
SwingersEssex.co.uk was the site that I was looking for. Not only is it a place where swingers from the Essex area can get together and find each other, it's also a hive of information for those of us who are just starting out. The Essex chat rooms let me get to know other swingers, and even find a few swingers in Maldon, just like me. It eliminated the whole beginner's anxiety thing, and when I did start going out to clubs and parties, I had familiar ‘faces' to turn to. Heck, I wouldn't have even got the invitation to join the clubs and parties if it wasn't for the people I met in SwingersEssex.co.uk's chat rooms.
The swingers in Essex chat rooms were so helpful and friendly, as well. There was no pretense, no sense of me being an outsider - just a welcoming atmosphere full of like minded people who were just looking for other swingers to connect with. Some weren't even looking for actual partners, just others who were in the lifestyle to have a save, non-judgmental chat with. If you're looking for a safe environment to learn about swinging in Essex, and to find others outside London who would like to have a bit of swapping fun, check out SwingersEssex.co.uk.