When I moved to Essex last year, my wife and I hoped that we could find couples like us. We're swingers, and love to socialise with other couples who swap. We've found that the best way to find other couples are to go to clubs, but we had a bit of a hard time locating swingers clubs in Essex. After a bit of searching on the internet, we found SwingersEssex.co.uk, and got all the information we needed, as well as got in touch with other swinging couples just like us.
Swingers clubs are quite a bit different than your typical pub or club. They tend to be private with a membership requirement, to protect the patrons. The dress codes of these clubs is usually smart, but the fact that they are shut off from the regular pub crawler gives the clientele a bit of leeway, and outfits can be quite sexy and revealing. Most of the swingers clubs in Essex accept single men, but there are a few that run a strict couples-only policy that means that a man cannot be unaccompanied. Single women are universally accepted by swingers clubs. Like most clubs, smoking and cigars are not permitted, as well as a restriction on cameras (including those in mobile phones).
When joining a swinger's club, especially if you've never been to one before, be ready to keep an open mind. Sexual activity takes place in the open at many of these clubs, since the voyeuristic aspect of swinger's sex is what attracts so many to the lifestyle. A few clubs will allow you to use sex toys, and many provide condoms free of charge. They also attract individuals with all varieties of sexual orientation, as well as fetishes and kinks. Some clubs have specific bondage nights for those swingers in the lifestyle.
In order to maintain a safe environment that follows the gender-rules of the particular club, swingers clubs will often require new members to take part in a randomly timed telephone interview. This is generally used to eliminate single men who are looking to try and join under the presence that they are a single woman. Others are satisfied with a copy of photo ID and an email interview.
So if you are looking to join swingers clubs in Essex, and would like to find out the best places to go, click over to SwingersEssex.co.uk for all the information that you'll need to make an informed decision.